Yesterday I was sitting on a bench in the city where I usually have lunch. The bench is on one of the main streets in Barcelona, Passeig De Gracia. Being on such a street, there are usually great opportunities for people watching and it’s as nice a place as any to have my daily bocadillo. Yesterday was windy. I sat alone on the bench, and the chill sea-wind bitterly pierced my cardigan. I sat, listening to a lonesome song about lost love, enjoying the moment, but a little off put by the cold.
Then I saw a girl walking up the sidewalk with a sign in her hands. “Free hugs,” it read. As she passed me she noticed me on the bench. She smiled. I smiled. Her eyes seem to ask if I wanted a hug. What could I do but nod? I stood and we embraced for a moment. Then she turned and kept walking up the busy street, and I sat back down on my bench. I sat back down and couldn’t help but smile.
There is a certain cliché corniness to the “free hugs” signs, but there is still something so truly fresh and life-giving about them. When you see one, you have to smile, and if you humble yourself and receive one, you realize the true power of the human embrace. To be held, for just a moment, by another person, another heart throbbing with life, is more powerful than we admit.
I sat down, I forgot about the cold wind whipping by, and I smiled. I just smiled.